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August 21, 2010

Why Is Ejaculation Control for Men So Important?

Tantra teaches us that for a man to achieve the highest ecstasy possible for himself and his lover, he first needs to learn ejaculation control and to direct his sexual energy up his spine to the higher centers of his brain. In Tantra this sexual energy is known as kundalini” energy. When a man masters the ability to move his kundalini energy up along his spine, he increases the pleasure for himself and his lover to levels that he might never have dreamed of. As a man learns to master the movement his sexual energy within his body, he will be able to control his ejaculation and be able to make love without feeling the pressure to ejaculate.

Men have a tremendous capacity for pleasure and orgasm that is virtually untouched for most men. A man’s sensitivity and awareness can be profoundly heightened to the subtle and refined pleasures of lovemaking when he steps into an expanded state of consciousness. This allows him to achieve full-body orgasms and multiple orgasms instead of being limited to genital orgasm with ejaculation..

There are many benefits to full-body orgasm. Full-body orgasm frees a man from stress and tensions, heals his prostate gland, opens his heart, and connects him more deeply to his lover and himself. It also helps the man to experience multiple orgasms. Male multiple orgasm does not mean multiple ejaculations It means that a man can have orgasms without ejaculation. These are known as non-ejaculatory orgasms. (To learn the skills necessary to achieve ejaculatory control and multiple orgasm, I recommend Michael Paladin’s post How to Achieve Male Multiple Orgasm.)

As a man masters Tantric practice and sexual energy movement, he begins to view his lingam (penis) as an instrument of a deeper love connection with his woman. This deeper connection helps move her to the highest states of ecstasy and orgasmic pleasure that she can achieve, which allows a man and woman to continue to reach higher levels of ecstasy together.

When personal Tantra instruction is either inconvenient or too expensive, Al Link and Pala Copeland’s Sexual Mastery Course and Kerry and Diane Riley’s Ultimate Home Tantra Course are two excellent self-teaching courses. I highly recommend either of these courses for those who can’t find a local Tantra teacher, attend a Tantra workshop, or just want to explore Tantra in the privacy of their own home.